Thursday, August 10, 2006
Was jogging yesterday evening as it is public holiday and i am not really into fireworks and i dun wanna sqeeze with ppl at the town with my big butt..haha. As my radio is not working, i have to jog in the slient without radio. I jog past a couple with the kid and the kid look a bit sad. i heard the mother saying Cannot, must train him, The father says train sai ar train. u look at him. i was thinking what have happen and i guess, they are goign to the little plaza opp my place and it is 2 bus stop away from where they are standing. I think the mother ask them to walk but the son is a bit lazy to.Kids are a little spoilt coz everywhere they go, is either car or buses. little walkign under the sun will melt them soon. Kids even carry better hp any u or not man. 3Gs phone can be seen on their hands. i really wonder what worst can come to in near future?
While cooling down and walking home, i saw young boy, or i should say young adult think ard 13 or 14. he is cycling and smokign at the same time. i am a bit shock as he is even shorter than me, how can he possibly got cigarette??
This leads my thinking to 'are parents relying completely on teachers?' well, i guess so and i have to be partial that, yes, kids are in school most of the time facign the teachers. but, is the teacher responsible for their act and not the parents?I have a fren who works as a teacher and she is depress as parent told her that is her fault for not planning the time table well. But on the other hand, liek what she say, if students complete their work and bring to sch, how will the schedule be off the track? Sickening parents over-protecting kids one day, will lead to over-spoilt.
Actually, i have a very good example, my brother, since young, spoilt by my mother. his allowance is always more than mine. his attention from mother is also more than mine. when he is sick, he gets all the attention, when i am sick, only panaold, a pail of water + towel and kitty will have all the attention on me. now that he have grow up, he never wrk also nvm, everything also never mind. happily go china find gf, and me? clearing shit for him. do he deserve m help? i guess not. i hink i let him be, but if i let him me, the creditors that my brother have owe them money come to my parents and i dun wanna c my dad work so hard for him, my parents quarrel for him, what should i do?
And just to share a little of my problem, someone raise a selfish suggestion to me. i dun look it as selfish rather difficult suggestion to me, shall i take? shall i not? shall i walk away? shall i ignore this person? or shall i cry in the middle of the nite?