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Lesson to be learn
Tuesday, March 27, 2007

Lesson to be learn

I have attended sch last nite and there is a interesting topic call Grievous.

It can be class as

grievous(formal)
complaint(voice dissatisfaction)
Dissatisfaction(unhappy)

Which do you think it is the worst? grievous??

grievous in office is something like a formal letter that you can write in to your manager to tell them who and who is bullying you la..this la..that la...

but complaint is just showing how unsatisfaction you are over the coffee at the pantry or smoking break etc....

but dissatisfaction is when one is unhappy with another, they keep quiet and slowly attack without your knowing.

So, actually, dissatisfaction is the most horrible one in office. and this doesn't just apply in office. doesn't it seems to apply in life? and this are kind of stages..

For Office:

Grievous(write in formally) - for those big co......no use then they will
complaint - to each other between themselve and un up
unhappy

For small Co:
Complaint - to everyone..even the kopi aunty and the sweeper uncle also know, after that?
unahppy - resign and go...

For real life...eg: love
unappy - heart and head boiling..enduring..enduring...and enduring
complaint - throw your hearts and have a talk with each other until some solution. complaint means having a chance/ room for each other to improve. giving them opptunity to learn from mistake. but if there is a need to move to higher level,
Grievous - letter of why you go..

link isnt it? own set of theory? haha :)

For this lesson, i lean something value in life:

Learn from mistake, do not even try or think of repeat
Always allow a breathing space for people to change
Allow people to learn from mistake

but can i ask, how deep or long should the breathing space should ever be? 1 day? 1 week? 1 month? 1 year? but how much one year do a person ever have?

in my bus journey home last nite, i refelcted something interesting between men and women..
Do you know that women does not need men? have you realise words like

woot
woah
wow
etc all start with wo? words ppl will say to descible things that are great, nice, beautiful?
And women starts with wo and men? wo + men = women and therfore, women have men in them so we dun need mens...

so Ladies... we are all wo-nderful wo-men.....

Cheers'

Blurgal02 posted @ 6:49 PM | 2 comments

Being Tagged
Monday, March 26, 2007

Thanks to this Serendipity that I have to state 6 weird things about me.

These are the rules: Each player of this game starts out by giving 6 weird things about themselves. People who get tagged need to write in a blog of their own 6 weird things as well as state the rules clearly. In the end, you need to choose 6 people to be tagged and list their names. After you do that, leave them each a comment letting them know you tagged them and to read your blog!

1) I cant stand the smell of coffee, holicks, ovaltine. Even if the person only walk past or drink beside me, i will feel disgust by the smell for no reason.

2) I hate ppl stand close to me at the back of me when queuing. I feel like giving them a fart as a punishment for standing close to me....

3) i dun comb my hair at home. i only comb it outside my house and there is a small mirror for me to look at .

4) i dun use the tip of my fingers to press the lift button. i use the bend part of the finger to press it...for hygeine purpose as the hand internet portion is normally what we use to eat, drink, hold things..the lift buttons contian countless baterica... >.<

5) I cant sleep/ live without my hand-made pillow. i will die...esp when goign out of Singapore/ cmaping......i can be a fish tossing in the BBQ.

6) I love Hello Kitty for no reason...... hahahah

So there! The 6 poor souls that I’m going to tag are:

Cousin
Jolin
Jiayan
HB
Zoe
Jerlyn

Blurgal02 posted @ 11:35 AM | 0 comments

Fat....
Saturday, March 10, 2007

ya...sentative topic...fat... yes..i have gain a few Kgs. for ppl who din realise, yes..i did and its not one but a couple of Kgs. damn......before CNY i gain those unless meat for fuck. anyway, for ppl who din relaise, those fats are locating at my ass, and my arms...and some parts near my tighs....my face have no change...not even more chubby. so for ppl who din realise too bad. for those who had and laugh at me..nvm...i will go on diet and let you down. hump......i hate ppl to laugh at me esp on this. i am a sentative women. i hate those who laugh at me!!!!!!

i din realise i have grow huge until i have diffcuities on my bras. and when you realise that your t-shirt and jeans seem to be smaller, its actually i grow bigger.....but i think i dun have the trouble these few days

been really sick therefore, i think this explains y i dun have the trouble. my appeitte coming back soon i think.....

argggggg....i wan go out walk walk...... boo..... i wan the bag display below....y the shopkeeper havent email me....i am willign to pay $50 ~ $80 for this bag.....anyone wann buy for me? hehe...it have a few diff kinds of bags for this design...hehe

Blurgal02 posted @ 6:27 PM | 1 comments

I wan the BAGGG
Thursday, March 08, 2007

i wan..anyone knows where how to order? i wan this bag....

Blurgal02 posted @ 7:37 PM | 2 comments

yawnz....

dunno issit that i was sick for last week, i m still feeling weak this whole week. slept at 11pm, woke up at 7.40, still, i m sleepy. doze off at bus, unable to concentrate at work. Is there something wrong with me?

last fri, dizzy spells hit me and as have been sleepign for the pass few days due to my illness. i decide to join my frens at the pub near to consourse. best part, i didnt drink a single slip, just drink some ice water. poor thing but still, i know, i m not suppose to drink as i on on anti-botic. its boring..i cant concentrate on the pool coz i m giddy...i look stone. i cant drink, i cant sing, what the hell i doign there for? :( at ard 2am, idecide thats all for the day when my frens decide its not. they headed to dragonfly.

Sat, suppose to join Ivan's bday celebration at dragonfly. but i decide i din wanna spread my virus ard as 2 of my collauge already kana. so i decided to stay at home. but ppl like Zoe....Jo...they din know i was attending so thay msg me. Zoe.....u really have to keep ur eyes open when walking down the streets.....i am a little suprise that you din know how concourse building looks like. but of coz...lucky my dad actually guide you over the phone...otherwise..i dunno where u n ting will be....anyway..was home the whole nite taking care of my mum...think she caught it from me as well...

Sun, actaully wanted to go out take a short walk, but raining too heavily so decide to stay home. i need to return my neightbour those dvd which i have borrowed from him...moives like the terminal..which i find it pretty nice. he is such a sweet guy..just becoz of a promise he made, he actaully bear with it and stay in the airport. the policeman is really a little bastard.......I actually meet my neighbour below his place but end up i went up to his place to take the last hong bao of the year from his mum. :D

mon sch as usual...tues work, wed slack..thrus now...tommorrow i have a birthday celebration. i hope i can be there if my cough and flu can recover by then. Otherwise....

Happy birthday Wendy!
Happy brithday to my darling Ivan!

sniff sniff.......