Wednesday, January 25, 2006
have anyone talk to your partner about where to stay after marriage?Most will think that now, staying alone will be quite common but staying with in-laws still happens. Mother cry in fornt of son begging them to stay with parents. Will ladies eher stay with in-laws?
Well, in the world, in fact singapore now, who is willign to stay with in-laws? qurrel will happen when a ger actaully stay with their husband's parents. A collauge of mine, have his wife stay with the mother. she is from malaysia, so my collgue dotes her and give way to her everytime when there is a quarrel. esp when it happens between his mom n wife. until the ger actually bad-mputh abt the mother, saying that she is not good etc, my collague actaully quarrel with her n 'cold war' happens
Another collgaue of mine, actually got married 2years ago n only stay with the in-laws for barely 2 mths and they shifted out. She told me that she quarrel several tiems with the husband, just to move out n not stay with the mother.
Chinses have a saying' jian mian rong yi,xiang chu nan' (easy to see each other, diccult to stay together) how true this sentence reflect man.
I dun mind stayign with in-laws but problem is the temper that i have, even my mum also know. i understand that it will be better in terms of financial as since stayign together, you dun have to pay for house installments, but think twice, it is healthy to stay togtehr if teher is quarrel everyday?
Monday, January 23, 2006
Hai, havent relly have time to blog man. office is always so busy. sorry for not updating for my honey bb to c. cant really rem what i didthe previous weekend, but i can only rem what i did the last weekend. Was at a movie on fri. Heirloom...er..no comments for this, dun watch it in weekend. i am eyeing at anotehr moive production by singapore also call 'i m not stupid too' . its a show reflecting the students in singapore that is facing. really have lots of thoughts about it. anyone wanna accomapny me watch :D after the show, Wendy wanted to go devils as her fren is leaving for taiwan. So we head down. end up stephen quarrel with his gf in devils. and wnedy become a middle girl. poor her, kana beat by the gf, while stephen insist to pull wendy to go with him on the jounry home. jasmine kana push by the gf, and me...her fuckign mouth is bad. she ask me go away and dun stand in front of her. damn...who wants to stnad in front of her if it is not pack. idnoit women. crazy asshole man. anyway, i ignore her. End up we went home after an hour of hide n seek. looking for wendy when she left her bag with hp with us n leave us there. Really had a bad nite.
Sat, hang out at MOS. how cool man. a beatiful huge place. we went ard n me n my neighbour somehow gt lost with wendy. we lost our way and we anyhow walk. soemhow, we met wendy at the bar. heng ar...if not we two goign to cry there.we went to the R&B room..but weird things is its playign more hip hop than R&B. afterthat, as jasmine, JL and huirong is at devils, we head down to devils after that. and then..home....
Sunday wentto do mani n pedicure. i did
Wednesday, January 04, 2006
2005 have past and 2006 came. i enjoyed my taiwan trip man....hehe
Was there on new year eve, 31 Dec 2005. My honey bb come pick me up from the airport and we head to the hotel to put my things. We went to Taipei 101 to watch some nice sence and took the evlator to reach the top from lvl 5 is 32 sec only and 43 sec to go back to lvl 5 from 89. thats is 2004 fastest elvator.i can really tell u guys what is the meaning of pack. It super pack and everyone is in a coat. yes...those big huge coat that you will c for winter. their temp was 18 on the down i arrive. God, i come from a hot country and all the way 18. One wind blow i can tell u....... -.- After count down, i feel something wrong, so i tell my bf to walk to the MRT as we count down. Just 5 mins from count down, we are liek pancakes, trying to get into the MET station. Not even the phaform but the entrance.Mind you, entrance...wha kaoz....i can tell u, we are not walking but ppl are pushing from the back. We reach Taipei raliway station at 3am. Its not the journey tat is long, is the queuing to buy ticket and to get in the station is long.
Next day morning, we woke up late so we din went to the breakfast in the hotel. We took MRT to jian tan and took their free bus to Miramar. Thats where the ferris wheel is. so beautiful sia...esp at nite. We head to Shi ling for nite market.Then we took their 'xiao wang'(cab) to rao he ..any palce liek nite market. Till the 2nd day, i m still eating food from streets and not the resturant or what. enjoy life sia...but i think i a bit fat liao.
the 3rd n last nite in Taipei, we went to bei tou's wen quan to enjoy. i think the one that we chose is not that good coz on the way down, we saw the open space public one looks much confortable. i can even c smoke out from the drain which is the water after ppl have enjoyed. still hot one. if next tiem we go, i make sure that we chose the rite one. After the wen quan, we went back hotel n we deicided to have ma la hou gou. the resturant that we have chose i think not very exciting. the soup not spicy one....-.- as planned, next stop should be dan shui's qing ren qiao(lover's bridge) damn nice man..esp the lights. o..before i forget, i nearly cold till death there...14C ..after the wind blow 12C. i nearly codl till death sia. i tot i cant maek it. did i mention that me n honey bb doze off in the train? we overshot the stops. lol. we are suppose to alight at the last stop but when we woke up, the train was travelign back to the palce we came from. its lucky that i realise early. if not...we really end up goign back to the place we came from. after a drink, we head back to ximending and go to the hello kitty KTV. :D happy happy......not very ex but is dirty. i dunno how logn they din clean the floor. so sticky...
o ya...i wanted to metnion the toilet....toilety are diff to find, worst thing is cannot throw the toilet paper inside. a bin is provided at each cubic, but, can u imagine, u throw the toilet paper there after u have wipe after small busienss...but big busienss??!!! their toilets are clean but smelly...
The last day there, we went shopping. shop for all the present. before coming out of hotel, i tried packign some stuff, but realise that my bags cant fit the presents. but after sqeezing still ok. while shopping, we by past a hello kitty shop. wha lao..i completely stuck there for the rest of the hours. end up, i brought the hello kitty bag for travelling one...anyoen here wanna jio me go holiday? haha..i have nice bag for holiday laio. hehe *grins*
Parting is sad...i dun wanna say here...