Fear added to marriage
Tuesday, December 18, 2007
out of curiosity, i just climb off my bed to the window wondering who is quarreling. it took me some time to realise is the couple staying opp me at level 16 i think. they have orange light in their living room therefore i can c clearly that the ger is actually vacuuming the floor. I hear some Chinese shouting which makes me figure out that the ger ask:' why m i doing', the guy reply:' these are the things you should do' the ger shouted:'i dun understand why i marry to you!'
think the guy got furious and i can c him grabbing her arms pushing her to the sofa i think.
it makes me added more fear that, is marriage a lasting thingy? in the real society now., who the hell says that only gers are suppose to do housework chores. we are already independent and working as well. our salary may even be the fact that its even higher than some guys. y housework chores is suppose to be handled by us?
i am a little traditional which makes me believe that if a guy is unable to provide the ger with a shelter over the head, i rather not married. if after marriage i need to contribute to the family, then why the hell i get married in the fact that i can enjoy luxury myself with my salary?
i saw the ger puffing and the guy ask him, why do u say that' (i presume is the why i married to you sentence)which makes me believe that the ger is 99% financially independent then true enough, married for what? to me now, all i m heading to is a higher position. the rest, it doesn't really matter to me, other than good health to my family.
much divorce and separating have been happening ard me. take for instant, i bump into my ITE mate in boiler few weeks ago and glad to hear that she is now working as a IT person in a bank. technical support. she told me she just got divorce and what shock me is, counting the years, which means that 1 year after ITE she is blissfully married, now she is happily divorce to. so in the first place, why get married?
i was talking to my sec sch fren and he actually make me realise that i am a double character person. i can be player and act like little kid till the extreme and next min i am be a serious person. i m not mad, dun worry, its just that i am a very extreme person. confuse?