Lesson to be learn
Tuesday, March 27, 2007
I have attended sch last nite and there is a interesting topic call Grievous.
It can be class as
grievous(formal)
complaint(voice dissatisfaction)
Dissatisfaction(unhappy)
Which do you think it is the worst? grievous??
grievous in office is something like a formal letter that you can write in to your manager to tell them who and who is bullying you la..this la..that la...
but complaint is just showing how unsatisfaction you are over the coffee at the pantry or smoking break etc....
but dissatisfaction is when one is unhappy with another, they keep quiet and slowly attack without your knowing.
So, actually, dissatisfaction is the most horrible one in office. and this doesn't just apply in office. doesn't it seems to apply in life? and this are kind of stages..
For Office:
Grievous(write in formally) - for those big co......no use then they will
complaint - to each other between themselve and un up
unhappy
For small Co:
Complaint - to everyone..even the kopi aunty and the sweeper uncle also know, after that?
unahppy - resign and go...
For real life...eg: love
unappy - heart and head boiling..enduring..enduring...and enduring
complaint - throw your hearts and have a talk with each other until some solution. complaint means having a chance/ room for each other to improve. giving them opptunity to learn from mistake. but if there is a need to move to higher level,
Grievous - letter of why you go..
link isnt it? own set of theory? haha :)
For this lesson, i lean something value in life:
Learn from mistake, do not even try or think of repeat
Always allow a breathing space for people to change
Allow people to learn from mistake
but can i ask, how deep or long should the breathing space should ever be? 1 day? 1 week? 1 month? 1 year? but how much one year do a person ever have?
in my bus journey home last nite, i refelcted something interesting between men and women..
Do you know that women does not need men? have you realise words like
woot
woah
wow
etc all start with wo? words ppl will say to descible things that are great, nice, beautiful?
And women starts with wo and men? wo + men = women and therfore, women have men in them so we dun need mens...
so Ladies... we are all wo-nderful wo-men.....
Cheers'