Wednesday, January 25, 2006
have anyone talk to your partner about where to stay after marriage?Most will think that now, staying alone will be quite common but staying with in-laws still happens. Mother cry in fornt of son begging them to stay with parents. Will ladies eher stay with in-laws?
Well, in the world, in fact singapore now, who is willign to stay with in-laws? qurrel will happen when a ger actaully stay with their husband's parents. A collauge of mine, have his wife stay with the mother. she is from malaysia, so my collgue dotes her and give way to her everytime when there is a quarrel. esp when it happens between his mom n wife. until the ger actually bad-mputh abt the mother, saying that she is not good etc, my collague actaully quarrel with her n 'cold war' happens
Another collgaue of mine, actually got married 2years ago n only stay with the in-laws for barely 2 mths and they shifted out. She told me that she quarrel several tiems with the husband, just to move out n not stay with the mother.
Chinses have a saying' jian mian rong yi,xiang chu nan' (easy to see each other, diccult to stay together) how true this sentence reflect man.
I dun mind stayign with in-laws but problem is the temper that i have, even my mum also know. i understand that it will be better in terms of financial as since stayign together, you dun have to pay for house installments, but think twice, it is healthy to stay togtehr if teher is quarrel everyday?