Thursday, July 22, 2004
Why hold someone back.. when you noe you don't luv them..Why keep them to urself.. when you noe you won't wanna have them? Why let them miss other chances.. when they can hav them?
If you really don't love someone.. let them go…hurt them NOW.. not later.. for a longer relationship builds stronger emotions..A good relationship isnt a game you play or an ego trip you take. It is abt luv and 2 people.Loving someone can give us the greatest joy we can ever know and it can hurt more than we can believe too. When it does
not really hurt when dat person did something disappointing to
you, but really hurts when you see that person in pain and
sadness, then you know you truly love that person. Loving someone means you shld be ready toexperience heartache and happiness at the same time. Dats the reward and dat's the risk.
Unless we are willing to experience it, we will neverreally noe what its like to luv and be loved.
Sharing luv is probably the most valuable and meaninful experience a person can ever hav.
And there's a difference between bein in luv with someone and loving someone.
Its the difference between a luv dat's fickle, wild
and short-lived and one dat's tender and passionate,
nurturing and lasts a long time. The first is easy.
The second, the one dat really matters to all of us,
takes work bcos its abt keepin a relationship. Luvin someone takes efforts. We have to be able to
communicate wit each other. Nobody can read anyone
else's mind. We always presume dat our partner noes
wad we tink and feel. Maybe in time we might be able
to predict or sense each other's thoughts but its never
perfect and takes time to develop.
Gettin the chance to luv and be loved by someone is blessed.
Respect him/her for who he/she is, and not wad you wan him/her to be.
Everyone is pretty and special in his/her own special way.
No one is perfect.
It is true luv which closes the gap of imperfectness to form a smooth surface of acceptance for each other.
True luv sees and accepts a person for who he/she is.It is also true luv which makes a person change for the better.
The power of true luv to a person is undeniable.
A relationship needs commitments too.
What is luv without commitments from each other anyway? It's like principles and values.
Everyone has them but they only mean as much as we are willing to stand for them. The same goes for our commitments to relationships, and the person we love. "Luv is like an antique vase. Its hard to find, hard to net,
but easy to break." Every day everywhere,
people fall in love.. but juz how many of these relationships
are self-sacrificing love, and not juz relationships which
are formed only for the intense! feelin of fallin in love?
I noe hundreds of friends who say
the magical words "I love you"..
but more often than not, the truth is juz I am IN love with you.
There is a difference between being in
love with someone and loving someone.
If a person says he/she is in love with you,
he/she means dat he/she likes you for who you are now and he/she fell in love with you bcos of the present you.
This kind of love is temporary and lasts only
as long as the fairytale lasts. When fairy godmother
comes in at midnight to whirl us back to reality,
we see the heartache of such a relationship..
where both were only IN luv with each other.
But if a person says he/she luvs you, he/she means dat he/she luvs you unconditionally for who you are now,
who you were in the past and who you might be in the future.
When he/she says he/she luvs you and
really means it,
you hav to ask urself if you love him/her too or
if you're in love with the idea of bein in love.
It is very hard to see the difference
through logical thinking.
Let your heart guide you. May you be blessed on your soul-searchin journey for your soul mate. ARE YOU RELI IN LOVE? ASK URSELF! Is this true love? Do I really love him/her?
Or is it juz another infatuation?
ARE YOU willin to give?Even though you may not get back the same amount you gave?
ARE YOU cheatin urself?
Thinking dat you really love him/her and
not juz takin him/her as a substitute for your
ex-boyfriend/girlfriend? Friends, let today be the day.. you truly understand love. If after readin this andanswerin all the questions, you are very sure dat you luv him/her, tell him/her dat. Let him/her noe how much you luv him/her and dat you are willin to take the risks of being hurt by him/her in the course of the development of yourrelationship with him/her. This is a luv dats sacrificial, ARE YOU ready for it? If you accept someone's philosophy dat is simply their rationalisation to justify their failure, youaccept their failures! **The greatest regrets in our lives are the risks we did not take.**
If you tink something will make you happy, go for it.
**Remember dat we pass this way only once.** YoU cAn'T mAkE sOmEoNe LuV
yOu, aLl YoU cAn Do Is Be SoMeOnE wHo CaN bE lOvEd, ThE
rEsT iS uP tO tHe PeRsOn
To ReAlIzE yOuR wOrTh~